Breaking barrier with strangers is not an easy thing to do since you don’t know anything about him or her and something that makes it worse is the fact that the stranger also doesn’t know a thing about how you are, leading to a very awkward situation where no one can put a good topic of discussion without feeling a little bit awkward about everything. However, you can be the one who finally breaks that difficult barrier with a stranger if you decide to use sweet-talking to your advantage and let out everything good that you have to say to that person which wants to make a conversation with you or even at the opposite case where you want to take the lead.
Is incredible to know that there are hundreds of people around the world that doesn’t have any problem with talking to a stranger even when they don’t know anything about that person, but how do they do it? Well, the secret behind most of these individuals is the usage of sweet-talking, which means that they always mind their manners, greet the stranger with due respect, and also they need to be careful with the usage of their words since you don’t want to make someone feel attacked or insulted for not being careful of the words.
That sounds good, doesn’t it? However that is just a brief introduction to the explanation, so if you want the full detailed reasons you need to check the next list where you will find a couple of reasons that defines why strangers like when someone uses sweet-talking to reach them, stay tuned.
REASON #1: STRANGERS FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE.
If you use a sweet tone while talking to someone, being a stranger or a fellow companion, that person will feel incredibly grateful and respected, which can lead to some changes in their behavior that will be capable of breaking the barrier that separates two people that doesn’t know each other and this will lead to great progress in the conversation, now you just need to open up a little more and determine what kind of topics do your want to put to discuss, in this way that stranger will feel even more comfortable since he or she will know that you can be someone useful to talk about something while they are waiting for something or someone.
REASON #2: SWEET TALKING IS USEFUL TO HELP PEOPLE.
Sometimes, when you are lost in one place, you want to ask for some information that might help you at that moment, however, when you don’t know anyone, what can you do? Well, asking something to a stranger may be easy, but if that stranger answer in a bad tone then you will feel ashamed or even angry, for that reason, you need to think in that position where you will be the one who will be asked, so, if you don’t want to make someone else feel bad without knowing anything about its day or its daily problems, then be gentle and use a sweet tone while remembering your manners and everything will be incredibly smooth for both parts.
Christine started her own business on cosmetics in 2005. Since then, it had been thriving and expanding. She also started a group with other entrepreneurs and do some workshops and seminars. She is a wife and mother of two kids.